~Long Post with lots of catch-up~

Turkey Day week was ok. I really enjoyed the time off I had to be with those I love. Wednesday I did however end up in the ER for a bit. I swear the ER here gives me Morphine like it is candy these days. This time I received Morphine – Phenergan cocktail – unfortunately IM and the nurse sucked! But I felt better afterwards.

My 17 yr old is gone. He is in the system now. I really hope he finds the help he needs some day and becomes the person I know he can be. So it is just Matt and Jamie again.

I spent turkey day itself at my parent’s house. Didn’t stay long since my legs were bothering me that day and I hated not having K there to share it. She spent the day giving Jagger a bath, trimming his nails, and munching on turkey day pizza. I went over there that night on my way back and told her I would be back at 5 AM to get her up for our trip on Friday. I wanted to stay over so badly but to no avail L had other plans as usual. So we went home and I set the alarm for 4:30. 4:30 came around and I got up, pulled on my thermals and my leggings and layered on the clothes. I knew it was going to be a frosty day especially since it snowed most of turkey day. I called K on my way over but she didn’t answer so I woke her up softly when I got there. We were still in ‘break-up’ time at this point so everything was kind of awkward. One of these days we will both learn you cannot break up with someone you so dearly love and loves you back.

So I finally got her up, showered and dressed and I took Jagger for a walk. We didn’t know which trails we were taking so we took Jagger over to play with Jackson and Jordan for the day. He will get to go with us another time. We left Dayton around 6:15 – hell Starbucks was not even open! But we did get to see the sunrise on our way east to Hockinghills.

After stopping at Mickey D’s and ordering an insane amount of McGriddles and Hash Browns and Chocolate milk we made it to Hockinghills. We stopped at our favorite little corner store there on SR 56 and stocked up on water bottles and snacks. When we got up SR 56 we decided to start at Ash Cave and see where we would go from there – so we did. We hiked all the way back to Cedar Falls. So we spent some time there and then took the upper gorge trail up to Rose Lake. There we stopped to eat a bite and take a cig break. Then we finished our hike from Cedar Falls back up to Upper Falls and came down the middle trail through the gorge and some tunnels and back through Old Man’s Cave and Lower Falls. Then we came back up to Cedar Falls and back through to Ash Cave again. A total hiking of 13 miles!

After we left there we both again realized we do not like to be apart from each other and will not be apart from each other. We drove around Logan a bit looking for a bookstore and finally found it up by Lancaster – it moved. Then we decided to take SR 33 all the way to Columbus and see what we could find to eat there. In Lancaster we were stopped at an accident scene and stuck in the front of the line waiting for emergency vehicles to clear. So we uses our time wisely giving Jr. over yonder next to us a show he will remember until puberty hits. Apparently we also entertained the firefighter who was putting cones down in front of the truck. Just a quickie 10-minute my hand inside her fucking her hard as she came down my arm – mmm mmm good! I had been wanting to be inside her for awhile at that point and it felt so good to finally be there if even for those few moments.

So once we were in Columbus we stopped at Posh Pets on High Street. We got Jagger the cutest little Hanukkah trinkets. He got a bandana with menorahs on it, a sweater that says Happy Hanukkah and a little furry dog bone toy that also says Happy Hanukkah 🙂 K found this carrier for him also. She wants it so badly. It is red leather with a skull and crossbones on the front of it. White and black spotted fur line interior with privacy windows and is completely airline certified for travel! Oh and she got him some doggie CK1 – yes he is the most spoiled dog in the universe 🙂 But how else do you explain perfection! I will upload his pics one day soon so everyone can see how perfectly perfect he is!

So after visiting Posh Pets we headed to find food. Dressed as we were – still in hiking gear – our choices were limited. So we settled on Indian food and ate at Taj Mahal on High Street. There we ordered Paneer Bhurji (Scrambled homemade cheese cooked with Tomatoes, Onions and Green Peppers), and Vegetable and Cheese Pakoras (similar to fritters – and very good in the plum sauce, although we both like the cheese ones better than that veggie ones). Ah yes and don’t forget our Onion Naan 🙂 Typically K and I eat a lot of ethnic foods when we are out and I typically let her order for me lol. Hey, I don’t have to know what I am eating all the time and I will try anything once! We are both strict vegetarians so that leaves our options pretty open and we like the same things so I trust her.

Ok so we leave there and try and head to this cute little head shop down on High Street (how apropos) until the paddy wagon – not a cop car – pulls us over for a U-Turn. Apparently they had nothing better to do with the night. So another cop pulls in behind them and waits. When they bring up the ticket – which K said rarely happens especially to someone with a CDL license and for such a minor offense – she made good to point out that the other cop had his headlight out and also needed a ticket tonight. They said they would check into it – whatever! Ok so we get to the head shop only to not find any non-gold (and definitely not pink) glass pipes with a big bowl and flat mouth piece. Of all the type of pipes she wishes to collect now she has to pick the absolute hardest of all to find! So we leave there with the awful visuals of the guy behind the counter offering to do a striptease for K. I almost told him thanks but no thanks; her wife will take care of that later! Ok so I am the jealous type!

So we got home and I stayed at K’s that night. K and I were pretty tired from driving all over God’s creation and hiking 13 miles. I went over to talk to L on Saturday and it became drama as usual. We ended up going through some of the same shit that we always do, and things turned out badly like it always does. I had the truck so I went and picked K up from work. We were in a small tiff – over nothing – and I was going to have her just take me to Kris’ house. We do not tiff well or for very long most of the time so we went back to her house. We both just sort of vegged out and watched Fear Factor marathons. The rest I will put behind a cut for my relative’s sakes!

Well K was on her laptop talking to L and she looked over to me and asked if I minded her coming over. I said it was fine. So she shows up and K was so desperate for Brownie Batter. We made a pinky promise – NO BEN & JERRY’S FOR TWO MONTHS!!! Fortunately (well and unfortunately) the UD B&J has closed its doors for the season – no Coffee Coffee Buzz Buzz Buzz till Spring! Ok so I was still horny as hell that night and still didn’t get any – so that made me cranky. And she was all sullen and wounded looking. But you know after the night she had just put me through she should look that way!

So I got up the next morning letting her be ‘monkey in the middle’ which made me a bit snippy and just sat around for a bit. K took Jagger for a walk and L made breakfast. I had K rub on my shoulders – I like L’s backrubs but they just are not hard enough. And of course afterwards K leaned down to kiss me and we did our normal stuff and the I gathered up things to head home since she was in a hurry to get back to the dogs and Matt was on his way back. We took Jagger back to our house to play with the dogs while K was at work and K called on her way in as she always does. So later that night K and I were talking. She was in a mood to be topped. I went and had dinner with her and she went to her meeting and afterwards took a little nap – dreaming that L was topping her and woke up very hot about it. So after a bit of convincing she finally decided to stay last night. They ran some errands and came back with a bag of toys. K tied my wrists to the headboard using the leather cuffs. Thank god for canopy beds! Before that I played my usual smart-ass masochist (SAM for short). Once she got the cuffs out I caved quickly. She tied me up and made sure they were tight. Which they were 🙂 And then she took out the nipple clamps and attached them. OMFG I forgot how much I enjoy those! So she made them tighter. I winced – yummy. She asked me a question before she put the cuffs on… I was asked, “Why do I want to play?” Of course she said there was only one answer and yes I did know the answer. So it had been 8 years since the last time I had participated in a scene. And I have never done this with someone I was in love with. But it was one of the most amazing nights. She said I sound so amazing. I loved the welts I have on my ass from the paddle and the tenderness on my back from the whips. My nipples were so sensitive even today that I still felt them when I went outside today to smoke at work. And there is a very nice bruise in the shape of the paddle across my right breast. She had me tied up with the leather cuffs and the clamps on nice and tight. I so totally enjoyed that. Then later I had the pleasure of being inside her. God – have I mentioned how much I love being inside this woman? She feels so fucking amazing. When she was finished she laid next to me and put her head on my breast and fell right to sleep. While she was there she looked up and told me that she is so in love with me. K still wants me to top her – she needs it. I just do not feel comfortable with it having L around. L wants me to top her and I just have no desire to do that with her. The energy is not there in any way. L is supposed to have a blind date tomorrow with someone her best friend hooked her up with. K is not happy at all about it. I figure it will come off pretty harmless. I guess in some way I hope she does hit it off but that is just me being biased. I want K sometimes to myself. I did marry her and that means more to me than anything else. I won’t let anything stand in the way of that. As for the other one in my life – well she is still my one regret but at least we are still friends. Ok enough for now. I will try and update more later!